(This post can also be seen in: http://grungelove.wordpress.com)

The vulture lurks the desert looking for a prey. Probably seeking a weak and wounded one so that he can munch through the skin easily and without much fight. That’s the nature of the vulture.

A no good sneaking a-hole acts the same way. Every relationship has its own downfall. A guy may have problems with his relationship because he could not give something to his partner. The sneaking a-hole will then capitalize. Swooping in like a vulture to eat the wounded meat. He will then display his strength and flex his muscles – proving to the world that he is the better man. Why is that so? Because he ate someone who is wounded. How pathetic.

In a relationship, a sneaking a-hole will always come around but for some reason, there are people who fall for the vulture’s trap. Maybe there’s not much love in that relationship or they’re just looking for some action to spice it all up.

Im not saying that vultures are as bad as the sneaking a-holes. Don’t get me wrong, but vultures also happen to bring balance to mother nature. I’m just talking based on the concept of relationships.

Going back, most of the victims of the so called “vultures” in a relationship tend to see what it is that they are missing in their current relationship. What they overlook is the fact that whatever it is that they are getting from these “vultures”, that is all that they will ever get. It hurts to know that some trade the good relationship just for some cheap thrills of attraction.

I just hope that you do not end up being eaten by vultures and worse, please do not be a vulture.

Hello readers,

I am in the process of writing a fiction novel about a guy who had his heart broken by the only woman that he loved for a very long time. The twist happens when he tried to create an image of a woman that would totally love him no matter what happens. He creates a very beautiful woman, understanding, loving and has all the traits every man would ever want right inside his imagination. The woman comes to life in his writings, social networks that he joined, e-mails and SMS messages. However, the woman is just a pigment of his imagination. He is actually the one sending himself e-mail messages.

Do you have any wise ideas on how I should go about with this one? Please send me some of your insights in my email (jemm_cellan@yahoo.com) or as a comment in this post and I will try to compile them as I progress in the novel. I will recognize all the help I can get. Thank you and may you all have a wonderful day.

Just recently, I have started another blog that is dedicated to articles pertaining to the painstaking effects of loving too much that most people would never understand whatever it is that you feel.

Please feel free to visit this new blog and I assure you that you will have a lot of fun and learn a bunch of lessons from the stories of people that I know and those who have contributed their  stories to me.

You can add your story too. Just send it over to my email at: jemm_cellan@yahoo.com

The new blog’s URL is: http://grungelove.wordpress.com. See you there!

*As adopted from the 1999 movie: 10 Things I hate about you.
1. I hate the way you converse with me and the way you mock my attitude.

2. I hate you for losing my ring.

3. I hate it when you make so many excuses just to be with SOMEONE else.

4. I hate your freakin’ heart earrings and the way you put words into my mouth.

5. I hate you so much it makes me cry everyday. It even makes me a f*ckin’ poet.

6. I hate the way you THINK you’re always right.

7. I hate it when you ALWAYS lie.

8. I hate it when you make me laugh; even worse when you make me cry (which is most of the time)

9. I hate it when you’re not beside me and you’re with SOMEONE else.

10. But mostly I hate the way I don’t really hate you –
not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all.

There are a lot of things that I want to do before I die. Actually, I was inspired by the movie, “The Bucket List” which my friend, Mark, told me about.

Why don’t you guys help me out in achieving my bucket list and keep reminding me about it? =)

1. Buy a condominium unit (check)

2. Get married (hopefully…)

3. Have 3 children (after number 2 of course)

4. Find a new hobby (working on it – Airsoft – thanks Jaypee!)

5. Be in a real “Legal” fight (ex. URCC)

6. Get out of the country

7. Change someone’s life for the better

8. Earn my ego back (cause I lost it somewhere along the way).

*You may have noticed that the things I wrote down are quite easy to achieve. Yes they all are. Why? Because I think I’m not going to live that long anyway. Life is too short for an emotional guy like me. I was thinking of a death by heart attack. Oh well. I may add up other things along the way but these things will do…for now.

You damn know who you are..

You better do what you promised. You better do it fast.

I’ve been down with love for the past couple of months. I always thought that it was no use to love anymore but then I realized that people fall in love not because they want to, they fall in love because they feel this urge of happiness bursting out from their hearts and makes them feel very special.

Problems arise when people fall in love but that is just the way it is. Most likely, you are going to get hurt and if you do, do not quit. There are people who are always ready to help out. So bear in mind that when you love, give it your best shot.

Sorry I haven’t posted for a few days now. I’m just feeling tired and sick (emotionally). The past few months has been really rough for me and goodness gracious, its great that I’m coping up. As far as I’m concerned, many people would rather die than experience the things that I’m going through right now. That is why I am so darn proud of myself! =)

I’ve not been really happy lately and I can barely smile believe me. I was at a special town affair last night and I found the entire thing so stupid and tiring. At the very least, I got to see some international fireworks but that’s it. As a consolation, I learned something really cool. As those lights went on and off and formed different shapes and sizes, I realized that life is too short to showcase every talent you have. You have only a few seconds or minutes to show this to everyone and eventually, they will soon forget what you just did. But, if you did your best and you were able to impress them, they would probably talk about this for a long time.

One of the participants in that barrage of fireworks started off really awful. It was so awful that I didn’t even dare to watch the rest of it. I took my glance away from the sky and started looking at the girl at my side who happens to be really cute. =) but suddenly, everyone clapped their hands. I was curious of course and suddenly I saw the sky filled with amazing lights. That was award-winning if I would judge it. IT was absolutely good!

And so I learned my lesson. Even if you fall into a slump, do not quit. People will be disappointed but then again, you just can’t please everyone. It’s just how life is and we can’t argue with that. There’s nothing wrong with giving up or quitting if you feel that there’s no more hope BUT you have to be sure that you have done EVERYTHING before you give up. Do all that you can and it will soon benefit you. Do this and in the future, you will find peace with every result you encounter because you know that you have done everything in your power and there would be no regrets in the end.

More often than not, people find it extremely hard to forgive especially when they get stumped on. But there will come a time that all the pain will sink in and simply get away from your entire system. When that time comes, it would be easy to forgive.

If you would remember the parable of the prodigal son, the father readily accepted his son even if he went astray and against him. Many have questioned the father’s actions but still, his decision remains.

A friend of mine once told me, “People around you sees better than you do.” He said they could see more than what I could see. Thing is, they could not feel what I feel. They may call me stupid but I will obviously resent that.

Everyone deserves second chances. No matter what sin it is that you committed. To cap this article I would like to say, “I’m glad you’re back. I missed you.” 

It just came into my mind instantly and I didn’t want it to go away. As you all know, I have a very poor memory. At a snap, I’m going to lose this thought and so, I have to jot this down immediately.

“Every second, every minute, every hour and every day is an opportunity to show your love. You don’t have to wait for the chance. All you have to do is grab the opportunity.” 

I was thinking about this while driving to work and I suddenly realized that chances and opportunities are totally different words.