*** (This post is also in http://grungelove.wordpress.com – written by the same author)

“If I could sacrifice something for you, would you do the same?”

Most people are unfair. They always want what is best for them and do not care what others would feel. Maybe that is why martyrs and heroes were born – to sacrifice themselves for the benefit of others.

In the context of a relationship, sacrifices come in different forms. It may be a simple sacrifice of time, money or a major sacrifice such life. Either way, it means giving something up and stepping out of your comfort zone for the person that you love. It sucks but it has to be that way.

It feels good to know that someone is willing to sacrifice something for you. It gives you the feeling that you are being loved to the highest extent. On the other hand, even if this person that sacrificed a lot for you did not ask for anything in return, you just have to be kind and repay it one way or another. Being in a relationship is a two-way process. If you can’t give love and can’t sacrifice something back, then what is the point of continuing the relationship? Ever heard of the phrase, ‘give and take’? Yes. give and take is something that you have to learn especially if you are in a relationship.
That being said, I hope that you guys learn to make simple sacrifices. Start from scratch and try doing it, you will realize that it is not that hard to be a hero or a martyr. Simple sacrifices such as waking up early will do.

(This post can also be seen in: http://grungelove.wordpress.com)

The vulture lurks the desert looking for a prey. Probably seeking a weak and wounded one so that he can munch through the skin easily and without much fight. That’s the nature of the vulture.

A no good sneaking a-hole acts the same way. Every relationship has its own downfall. A guy may have problems with his relationship because he could not give something to his partner. The sneaking a-hole will then capitalize. Swooping in like a vulture to eat the wounded meat. He will then display his strength and flex his muscles – proving to the world that he is the better man. Why is that so? Because he ate someone who is wounded. How pathetic.

In a relationship, a sneaking a-hole will always come around but for some reason, there are people who fall for the vulture’s trap. Maybe there’s not much love in that relationship or they’re just looking for some action to spice it all up.

Im not saying that vultures are as bad as the sneaking a-holes. Don’t get me wrong, but vultures also happen to bring balance to mother nature. I’m just talking based on the concept of relationships.

Going back, most of the victims of the so called “vultures” in a relationship tend to see what it is that they are missing in their current relationship. What they overlook is the fact that whatever it is that they are getting from these “vultures”, that is all that they will ever get. It hurts to know that some trade the good relationship just for some cheap thrills of attraction.

I just hope that you do not end up being eaten by vultures and worse, please do not be a vulture.

Pretty creative

Where are you going?

I knew it!

Hello readers,

I am in the process of writing a fiction novel about a guy who had his heart broken by the only woman that he loved for a very long time. The twist happens when he tried to create an image of a woman that would totally love him no matter what happens. He creates a very beautiful woman, understanding, loving and has all the traits every man would ever want right inside his imagination. The woman comes to life in his writings, social networks that he joined, e-mails and SMS messages. However, the woman is just a pigment of his imagination. He is actually the one sending himself e-mail messages.

Do you have any wise ideas on how I should go about with this one? Please send me some of your insights in my email (jemm_cellan@yahoo.com) or as a comment in this post and I will try to compile them as I progress in the novel. I will recognize all the help I can get. Thank you and may you all have a wonderful day.

Just recently, I have started another blog that is dedicated to articles pertaining to the painstaking effects of loving too much that most people would never understand whatever it is that you feel.

Please feel free to visit this new blog and I assure you that you will have a lot of fun and learn a bunch of lessons from the stories of people that I know and those who have contributed their  stories to me.

You can add your story too. Just send it over to my email at: jemm_cellan@yahoo.com

The new blog’s URL is: http://grungelove.wordpress.com. See you there!

You damn know who you are..

You better do what you promised. You better do it fast.

I’ve been down with love for the past couple of months. I always thought that it was no use to love anymore but then I realized that people fall in love not because they want to, they fall in love because they feel this urge of happiness bursting out from their hearts and makes them feel very special.

Problems arise when people fall in love but that is just the way it is. Most likely, you are going to get hurt and if you do, do not quit. There are people who are always ready to help out. So bear in mind that when you love, give it your best shot.

I just got to work and I was hounded with a lot of folders and papers on top of my desk. So what did I do? I searched for something funny. Here goes!

Here’s the usual treat that I give you guys every time work becomes boring. Yes… it became so boring once again. Enjoy a good laugh folks!

I really didn’t want to post this but my officemate wanted this to be published to everyone… so here you go.